My personal opinion

A single quote from the book The Heir of the Dynasty perfectly encapsulates the complex relationship we all have with finances: “He who controls money need not fear it. However, those who cannot control money will always find themselves lacking it. Although it may appear straightforward, a closer examination reveals that it holds a profound significance. At its core, the quote highlights the difference between mastery and being mastered. It’s not about having money; it’s about controlling it. Think about it—we’ve all heard stories (or maybe experienced them ourselves) of lottery winners who ballooned their fortunes over a few years. They had a giant influx of money, but they lacked the control, discipline, and understanding to manage it effectively. Instead of being masters of their wealth, they found themselves subservient to it.  The first part of the quote, “He who controls money has nothing to fear,” speaks to a sense of security and empowerment. When you understand how to mana...

From a psychological perspective, the claim that it is easier to tell the truth is based on the principle of cognitive medicine. Truth is always a meeting of our experiences, memories, and perceptions. When we tell the truth, we are simply conveying information that is no longer known and exists in our minds. No additional mental effort is required to construct or reconcile it with reality.   Conversely, lying requires significant cognitive effort. To lie successfully, we must invent a false version of the event, make it believable, and remember it to maintain consistency. We must suppress our true memories and feelings, control our body language, and anticipate how others will react to our lie. All of these processes require significant mental energy and focus.  In addition, when we lie, we often experience internal conflict, since lying contradicts our innate sense of morality. Such behavior can lead to feelings of guilt, anxiety, and stress, which further complicate th...