My personal opinion

We've all heard the old saying, "Don't judge a book by its cover." It’s a classic for a reason, and it rings especially true when we think about people. You see someone impeccably dressed, looking sharp and put-together, and your brain instantly makes assumptions. Maybe they're successful, trustworthy, or super organized. But here's the twist: "A person's clothes may conceal their true nature, yet their words and actions expose it." This isn't just a clever line; it's a profound truth about human nature. Think about it. Clothes are a costume. We choose what we wear to project an image—whether it's professionalism, rebellion, comfort, or style. They can be a fantastic tool for self-expression, but they are also a magnificent veil. What you wear can tell a story, but it's only a narrative you've curated. Opening your mouth and, more importantly, taking action reveals the true story, the unedited version. Our words carry our thou...

Yeah, everyone says it. You know, like when you finally show up to the movie, super late, mumbling, "Better late than never!" Or your buddy finally gets around to something, after forever, and is all, "Hey, better late than never, right?" It's just, like, a thing we say when stuff goes sideways.  Whatever it's supposed to be about, it's, like, not giving up or something. And, you know, grabbing chances even when you’re super behind. It's just a saying, basically meaning it's cool to do something late instead of just, like, not doing it. A gentle nudge? Nah, it's just telling you to get it done, even if you blew the deadline or life happened.  Anyway, picture this: you want to play guitar, right? But, like, whatever, life gets in the way. Work, family, all that jazz. Years go by, and you forget about it. Then, one day, you just, like, grab an old guitar. Sure, you'll probably think, "Man, I should've done the job sooner," but...

We've all encountered this person, or maybe, if we're honest, been this person. The individual seems to function on an entirely different level of existence, displaying complete disarray in their thoughts, words, and actions. They think one thing, say another, and then proceed to do something completely divergent. This situation often leads to confusion, frustration, and even complete chaos. But what's behind this disconnect? What might cause some individuals to struggle with aligning their inner world with their outward behavior? One primary driver of this disconnect is the pressure to conform to societal expectations. We all learn, often from a young age, that certain thoughts and feelings are deemed "acceptable" while others are not. Think about the child who is told to hug a relative they don't like or the employee who has to feign enthusiasm for a project they despise. The constant pressure to project a socially acceptable image of ourselves can lead to a...

The maxim, “Words alone are not enough; action is needed,” is an eternal truth, especially relevant when considering the very nature of manners. Found in the context of the book Manners in the Great Kingdom, this quote serves as a powerful reminder that true courtesy and respect go beyond mere verbal expressions; they require tangible demonstration through actions.  Manners are essentially a set of social norms and behaviors designed to promote harmony and consideration. They are the unwritten rules that guide us to respectfully engage with others, foster empathy, and mitigate potential conflicts. While verbal expressions of politeness, such as saying “please” and “thank you,” are undoubtedly a significant part of this system, they constitute only the surface level. True manners go much deeper and require a conscious effort to translate words into concrete actions that demonstrate genuine care and understanding.  The inadequacy of words themselves stems from their inherent sus...

 The Heir to the Dynasty is a book rich in observations about human nature, power, and the intricacies of family. Within its narrative, one particularly poignant quote rings with universal truth: "When we have something, we don't pay attention to it. When we don't have it, we strive to have it, whether or not we need it." Our tendency to underestimate what we have and relentlessly pursue what we don't have, even if that pursuit is ultimately disastrous. The first part of the quote, “When we have something, we don’t pay attention to it,” speaks to the phenomenon of taking things for granted. It’s a deeply ingrained human tendency. Familiarity breeds complacency. Objects, relationships, and even our own health become background noise, unnoticed until their absence brings them to the forefront. Think of the everyday conveniences we often neglect: reliable electricity, clean running water, and the company of loved ones. We only truly appreciate their value when they’r...

In essence, everyone speaks, but most people listen to and comment on the words of politicians.   During the years for which there are at least some writings, the words of politicians, kings, and emperors were always directed at someone or against the enemy. Even modern politicians from small countries often attribute the obstacles to their people's development to others. Politicians from powerful countries consistently aim to win elections by targeting other powerful nations. However, they often fail to translate their promises of improving citizens' welfare into concrete actions. In today's world, where information spreads quickly and we often question the inane statements made by political candidates, we still choose to elect them again. Their popularity is due to our familiarity with them, which often leads us to distrust the unknown or unfamiliar. I only know that for as long as the world can remember, almost nothing has changed in the political sector and the promises...

With each step we take, we inch closer to our goal.  Decisions and actions both contribute to getting closer to our objective; therefore, we should view them as interconnected. When we feel stagnant, it's beneficial to remember that every step brings us closer to our goal. The goal serves as a constant reminder to persevere through challenging times, a metaphor for the final destination.  If we maintain our focus on the end goal, we will overcome the temptation to give up when we do not see instant results.  Movement forward is continuous. Therefore, even if we only move slightly, we are still moving forward. No matter how tiny, we should rejoice in our successes because they all contribute to our ultimate objective.   Making progress is synonymous with succeeding; therefore, advancement is success. Remember this the next time you feel like you are not making any progress; every small step matters, even if you haven't reached your ultimate goal yet.  When w...