My personal opinion

 Have you ever paused to consider, "Am I truly making progress here?" It's a common thought, particularly when life seems like a never-ending cycle. We're often told progress equals a bigger title, a fatter salary, or a fancier car. And sure, those can be signs. However, what constitutes genuine, deep-rooted progress? That often looks a little different, and honestly, a lot more personal. How can you determine if you have advanced? For a moment, let's set aside the conventional scorecard and examine some authentic signs that you're not merely drifting aimlessly but genuinely creating a life you cherish.  Your financial situation feels less stressful. Okay, let's be real, money isn't everything. But having enough money and using it wisely is a giant freedom. Think back a few years. Were you constantly sweating over bills? Were you constantly balancing your rent and groceries? A sign of progress: You're not just getting by; you're building a buff...

Quote from the book "The Wealth of Great Kingdom": "If a man loses control and fears take over..." It's simple, but it carries so much weight. We all know that feeling, right? It's a moment when you lose control and fear takes over.  The quote seems to hint at some human truths, especially regarding success, wealth, and perhaps even just navigating life in general.  "loss of control." What does that even mean? To me, it depicts a situation in which you are not acting rationally. You're not weighing options, considering consequences, or even thinking clearly. Maybe you're in a high-stress situation, facing a major setback, or dealing with something emotionally overwhelming. Whatever the trigger, the rational part of your brain tends to recede, leading you to simply react. Think about it: Have you ever made a rash decision because you were scared? Maybe you panicked and sold an investment during a market downturn, even though you knew it was ...

A single quote from the book The Heir of the Dynasty perfectly encapsulates the complex relationship we all have with finances: “He who controls money need not fear it. However, those who cannot control money will always find themselves lacking it. Although it may appear straightforward, a closer examination reveals that it holds a profound significance. At its core, the quote highlights the difference between mastery and being mastered. It’s not about having money; it’s about controlling it. Think about it—we’ve all heard stories (or maybe experienced them ourselves) of lottery winners who ballooned their fortunes over a few years. They had a giant influx of money, but they lacked the control, discipline, and understanding to manage it effectively. Instead of being masters of their wealth, they found themselves subservient to it.  The first part of the quote, “He who controls money has nothing to fear,” speaks to a sense of security and empowerment. When you understand how to mana...

The idea that power over other people is less important and difficult to achieve than power over one's own thoughts, emotions, and actions.  Control over others refers to the ability to influence or direct other people's behavior.   This type of control can be achieved through various means, such as authority, persuasion, manipulation, or even force.   Control over oneself: This type of autonomy is a much deeper and more difficult form of power to achieve. It requires awareness, discipline, self-control, and the ability to manage one's inner impulses and reactions.   The proverb emphasizes that true power does not lie in external control but in inner freedom and the ability to master oneself. Self-control is a prerequisite for personal development, happiness, and success.  An angry, aggressive person may have "power" over others, but he is not in control of himself.    A successful entrepreneur can lead a large team, but if he cannot man...