When it comes to other people's sins, we immediately put on the black robe and become ruthless judges, but when it comes to our offspring, we suddenly become the most expensive lawyers in the world. Take social media, for example. You scroll through Facebook or TikTok and see an “influencer” or even someone you know who has done something stupid—for example, parked in a double space or uploaded a slightly provocative photo. We immediately take on the role of moral judge. “Look at how arrogant he is.” “Doesn’t he have any shame?” “Where is the education?”—the comments rain down, and the verdict is final and without appeal. However, just an hour later, we ourselves stop “just for a minute” at the emergency lights in front of the bakery, blocking all traffic. And then our inner lawyer begins his plea: “But I’m in a hurry.” “There was nowhere else to go.” “The child is hungry.” “This is just for a moment; he’s not like those real brats.” The source is absolutely...
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