My personal opinion

 Have you ever paused to consider, "Am I truly making progress here?" It's a common thought, particularly when life seems like a never-ending cycle. We're often told progress equals a bigger title, a fatter salary, or a fancier car. And sure, those can be signs. However, what constitutes genuine, deep-rooted progress? That often looks a little different, and honestly, a lot more personal. How can you determine if you have advanced? For a moment, let's set aside the conventional scorecard and examine some authentic signs that you're not merely drifting aimlessly but genuinely creating a life you cherish.  Your financial situation feels less stressful. Okay, let's be real, money isn't everything. But having enough money and using it wisely is a giant freedom. Think back a few years. Were you constantly sweating over bills? Were you constantly balancing your rent and groceries? A sign of progress: You're not just getting by; you're building a buff...

We’ve all heard the adage, “Lend a hand.” It’s etched into our collective consciousness as the epitome of human kindness, a fundamental pillar of community and compassion. See someone struggling? Reach out! Offer support! Be the hero they need! It sounds wonderful, right? Like something straight out of a feel-good movie. But here’s a rather uncomfortable truth, one that flies in the face of all those warm fuzzy feelings: people sometimes prefer not to receive open help. And believe it or not, in today’s hyper-individualistic, often privacy-obsessed world, this sentiment is becoming even more pronounced. It’s a strange paradox: we yearn for connection but often recoil from direct intervention when we’re at our most vulnerable. Think about it. There’s a quiet dignity in solving your problems, isn’t there? You experience a feeling of victory when you successfully navigate a challenging situation without requiring assistance. When someone swoops in with an outstretched hand, no matter ...

In a world dominated by apps, artificial intelligence, and instant solutions, the concept of self-help can seem outdated. Here’s a quick example. A seasoned entrepreneur named George once resided on the outskirts of town. George was a traditionalist who valued hard work and independent problem-solving. His business—a small organic produce delivery company for local farms—was thriving but required constant attention. George had two sons, Alex and Bobby—typical members of Generation Z. They were born with smartphones in their hands, accustomed to Google Maps, online tutoring, and instant roadside assistance. Every day, George would take them with him to help with his deliveries. They navigated with GPS and managed online orders, but when it came to the mechanical aspects of the old but reliable van, that was Dad’s job. One day, however, Georgi got sick. “Boys,” he said, his voice hoarse, “today you’re going to have to make the deliveries yourself. The app has everything loaded, including...

Yes, giving things is not a big secret; it feels quite good. You give, and you get some positive vibes. Why? There are several factors at play. First, you feel, like, connected. You help out; you're part of something bigger than just yourself. That's, like, important for feeling okay. Secondly, you express your values clearly. You give, and you're saying, "Yeah, this thing." It enables you to live your life according to your desires, which is crucial for feeling content. Ultimately, you stop focusing on your concerns. Concentrate on others' needs rather than your own challenges. A gift can be a significant boost to your mood, I believe. So, if you're down, just give someone something. It could potentially alleviate your distress. Who knows? Why It Makes You Happy, Supposedly: Like we said, giving makes you happy for, like, reasons. But what about it? Brain stuff. When you do something nice, your brain goes "dopamine!"—that "feel-good" c...

To make the best decision, my book, "Manners in the Great Kingdom," is a helpful guide, meticulously crafted with my children in mind. You can find it at various bookstores where it's readily available to assist you on your journey to making thoughtful choices.   Making the right decision is often the key to navigating life successfully, and my book offers helpful tips for this process. It empowers readers to make well-informed decisions and, just as importantly, to accept the repercussions that follow. Furthermore, it instills the vital principle of perseverance: never giving up, even when faced with adversity.   Selecting the appropriate option is usually difficult. The sheer volume of choices can be overwhelming, making it difficult to discern the best path forward. However, "Manners in the Great Kingdom" emphasizes the importance of meticulous consideration—weighing all available options before making a decision.   Another significant hurdle lies in acc...