The effort made does not always lose value due to unforeseen circumstances

We've all heard it. Maybe you're sprinting into a movie theater ten minutes after showtime, muttering, "Better late than never!" Or perhaps a friend finally finishes that project they've been putting off for months, exclaiming, "Well, better late than never, right?" It's a common expression, a comforting blanket statement that we throw around when things don't quite go according to plan. But behind this simple phrase lies a deeper truth about perseverance, opportunity, and the importance of showing up, even when the clock isn't on your side. "Better late than never" is a proverb, meaning it's a short, popular saying that expresses a common truth or belief. The main point is that it's better to do something late than not at all. It's a gentle nudge toward action, a reminder that missed deadlines or unforeseen circumstances don't necessarily negate the value of the effort. Think about it. Imagine you've always wanted to learn how to play the guitar. Life gets in the way—work, family, and other commitments. Years pass, and the dream fades. Then, one day, you decide to finally pick up an instrument. You might feel regret for not starting sooner, but the prevailing sentiment should be relief and excitement. You're finally doing it! The initial feeling of "I should have started years ago" is quickly overshadowed by the joy of learning something new. This principle applies to countless areas of life. Maybe you've been meaning to apologize to someone you hurt. Perhaps you've been procrastinating on a health check-up. Or maybe you've been putting off starting that small business you've always dreamed of. In each of these scenarios, the "better late than never" philosophy encourages us to overcome inertia and take action. But is it always true? Are there situations where "never" might actually be, well, better? The answer, of course, is yes. There are instances where the passage of time renders an action ineffective or even harmful. For example, trying to evacuate from a hurricane zone after the worst of the storm has already hit would be incredibly dangerous and potentially fatal. Similarly, investing in a trending stock after it has already peaked could lead to significant financial losses. It's important to approach the saying with a healthy dose of nuance because of this. The phrase shouldn't be used as an excuse for habitual procrastination or a justification for consistently missing deadlines. Responsible application of "better late than never" involves realistically assessing the situation, understanding the potential consequences of delay, and weighing the benefits of taking action, even if it's overdue. Furthermore, it's important to consider the impact of lateness on others. While it may be preferable to submit a project late, consistently doing so could harm your reputation and undermine trust among colleagues. In such cases, it's crucial to communicate proactively, offer apologies for any inconvenience caused, and strive to improve time management skills to avoid future delays.  This proverb motivates us to overcome inertia and grasp opportunities, even when the timing isn't ideal. It's a testament to the power of perseverance and the importance of showing up, regardless of the circumstances. However, it's crucial to apply the phrase with wisdom and discernment, considering the potential consequences of delay and the impact our actions have on others. So, the next time you find yourself facing a situation where you're tempted to give up because it's "too late," remember this simple saying. This simple saying could serve as the motivation you require to initiate action. After all, isn't it better to try than to spend the rest of your days wondering, "What if?"

Is it possible? People Unite for Peace

The world is a complex, ever-changing landscape of alliances, rivalries, and ideologies. We are often bombarded with headlines about conflict, geopolitical tensions, and the seemingly endless struggle for power. It’s simple to forget about mistakes and stop blaming ourselves. It was your fault. You didn’t start first. But what if we dared to dream a little? What if we explored the “what ifs” of unprecedented global cooperation? What if individuals, defying all expectations, chose to unite for peace? The Unthinkable for Many Now: The US and Europe join the BRICS. The BRICS, currently composed of Brazil, Russia, India, China, and South Africa, represent a significant counterweight to the traditional, Western-dominated global order. What would happen if the United States and key European countries decided to join this group? Shift in global power dynamics: The immediate consequence would be a dramatic reshaping of global power dynamics. These changes could lead to a more multipolar world, where no single country or bloc has absolute control. The inclusion of the US and Europe would inject enormous financial resources and technological expertise into the BRICS. We could see a restructuring of global trade agreements, a revaluation of reserve currencies, and a shift in investment flows. I propose the adoption of a common currency distinct from those currently in use or dominating the market. While such an alliance could unlock unprecedented opportunities for cooperation on issues like climate change, global health, and poverty reduction, it could also create new points of friction. Different political systems, economic priorities, and security concerns could lead to internal divisions and potentially weaken the bloc’s overall effectiveness. An even wilder thought, but not impossible: Imagine Russia, China, India, and Brazil, all major players in the BRICS, suddenly deciding to join NATO, the North Atlantic Treaty Organization, a historic military alliance created to counter the Soviet Union. I don’t need to explain how the Allies divided Europe after World War II. They may have squandered an opportunity after successfully creating the United Nations. They have failed to establish the United Nations as a significant entity where all nations can unite and adhere to the established rules. This partnership would fundamentally alter NATO's identity and purpose. From a defensive alliance focused on deterring Russian aggression, it would transform into a truly global security organization, encompassing vastly different geopolitical perspectives.  Enhanced Global Security… Or a Powder Keg?: On the one hand, such a move could theoretically create a more stable global security environment. Bringing major powers within a single security framework could reduce the likelihood of large-scale conflicts. On the other hand, the inherent tensions and competing interests between these nations could turn NATO into a dysfunctional and ineffective body. Disputes over military strategy, burden-sharing, and regional conflicts could paralyze its decision-making process. A NATO expansion to include these powers would likely see intense internal power struggles. The international response would be profoundly impactful. Some nations might welcome the move as a step toward global peace, while others would view it with deep suspicion and alarm. Smaller countries might feel marginalized and seek to form their alliances, potentially leading to a more fragmented world order. A Unified Global Force Under the UN Now, imagine the G20 nations uniting their military and police forces under a single umbrella, operating under the auspices of the United Nations. This "UN Global Security Force" would be akin to the WHO for health or the Olympic Committee for sports, aiming to maintain peace and security across the globe. A World Without War? The most optimistic outcome is a significant reduction in armed conflicts. A unified global force, accountable to the UN, could act as a powerful deterrent to aggression, intervene in conflicts before they escalate, and enforce international law more effectively. Imagine redirecting the trillions of dollars currently spent on national defense to tackle global challenges such as poverty, climate change, and disease. Such an initiative could lead to unprecedented improvements in living standards and a more equitable distribution of resources. The biggest hurdle, of course, would be overcoming the egos of national leaders and the deeply ingrained pursuit of national interests. Would countries be willing to cede control of their military forces to a supranational body? Would they have faith in the UN Global Security Force to act impartially and refrain from serving the interests of certain powerful nations? Ensuring accountability and preventing abuse of power would be crucial. Robust oversight mechanisms, including independent monitoring and judicial review, would be essential to prevent the UN Global Security Force from becoming an oppressive tool. If successful, such a move could dramatically improve people's lives. Reduced conflict, increased investment in social programs, and a more equitable distribution of resources could lead to a more peaceful, prosperous, and just world for all. The question is, can leaders ignore their egos for the benefit of humanity? Can they overcome historical rivalries, ideological differences, and the ongoing battle for national interests to embrace a vision of global cooperation? It's a challenging task, to be sure. History is littered with examples of missed opportunities for peace and cooperation. Self-interest, fear, and a lack of trust have often prevailed. However, history also shows us moments of extraordinary leadership and unexpected breakthroughs. The creation of the United Nations itself, in the aftermath of World War II, stands as a testament to humanity's capacity for collective action in the face of global challenges. The ability of people to unite for peace depends on a fundamental shift in mindset. Such an effort requires a belief that a better world is possible, a willingness to compromise, and a commitment to working together to achieve common goals. It requires leaders who are willing to prioritize the well-being of humanity over short-term political gains. While the scenarios described above may seem far-fetched, they serve as thought experiments that prompt us to consider the potential benefits and challenges of deeper global cooperation. By daring to imagine a more peaceful world, we can begin to explore the paths that might take us there. It is a long and difficult journey, but one that is certainly worth taking. Perhaps enough people will choose to believe in the possibility of peace to make it a reality. But I am certain that at some point in the future, people will have to be united. "Whether it was the climate or some unexpected thing that hasn't yet led people to fear a common enemy."

First he thinks one thing, second he says another, and third he does something entirely different.

We've all encountered this person, or maybe, if we're honest, been this person. The individual seems to function on an entirely different level of existence, displaying complete disarray in their thoughts, words, and actions. They think one thing, say another, and then proceed to do something completely divergent. This situation often leads to confusion, frustration, and even complete chaos. But what's behind this disconnect? What might cause some individuals to struggle with aligning their inner world with their outward behavior? One primary driver of this disconnect is the pressure to conform to societal expectations. We all learn, often from a young age, that certain thoughts and feelings are deemed "acceptable" while others are not. Think about the child who is told to hug a relative they don't like or the employee who has to feign enthusiasm for a project they despise. The constant pressure to project a socially acceptable image of ourselves can lead to a disconnect between our true emotions and our external expressions. We might think, "This meeting is a waste of time," but say, "I'm excited to collaborate with everyone!" Then, completely disengaged, we spend the entire meeting browsing online, engaging in other activities. This behavior often stems from a fear of judgment or rejection. We worry that if we express our true thoughts, we'll be ostracized, criticized, or even punished. So, we build up walls of pretense, sacrificing authenticity for perceived safety and social acceptance. In some cases, this disconnect isn't driven by innocent social anxiety but by a more calculated desire to manipulate or deceive. Someone might have a hidden agenda, using words to mask their true intentions and actions to achieve a specific outcome. Think of the politician who promises one thing during their campaign but acts in completely contradictory ways once in office. Such behavior can be driven by a desire for power, control, or personal gain. By deliberately misrepresenting their thoughts and actions, individuals can manipulate situations to their advantage, often at the expense of others. While it might seem effective in the short term, this manipulative approach often leads to distrust and damaged relationships in the long run. Occasionally, the disconnect stems from a deeper internal conflict. We may experience cognitive dissonance as a result of torn desires or beliefs. Imagine someone who believes in healthy eating but constantly indulges in junk food. They might think they want to be healthy, say they're committed to a diet, but then do the opposite. This internal struggle can be incredibly challenging and uncomfortable. It often leads to feelings of guilt, shame, and self-doubt. To alleviate this discomfort, individuals might resort to rationalization, denial, or other defense mechanisms, further widening the gap between their thoughts, words, and actions.  Regardless of the underlying cause, living in a state of disconnect can have significant consequences. It can lead to people being less likely to trust someone whose words and actions don't align. Inconsistent behavior can create confusion and resentment in personal and professional relationships. The constant struggle to reconcile conflicting thoughts, words, and actions can take a toll on mental well-being. Living a life built on pretense can lead to feelings of emptiness and a lack of genuine connection. While it's impossible to be perfectly aligned all the time, striving for greater consistency between our thoughts, words, and actions is crucial for building authentic relationships and living a fulfilling life.  This process involves understanding our thoughts, feelings, and motivations. We must maintain honesty with both ourselves and others. We must be willing to express our authentic selves, even when it presents challenges. We must act in accordance with our values. Ultimately, the closer we can align these three aspects of our being, the more authentic and genuine we become. Although achieving complete congruence may seem unattainable, making a conscious effort to close the gap is a valuable endeavor. It's about striving to live a life where our actions reflect our values and where our words carry weight and sincerity. It's about being someone who says the right things and does them. And that, perhaps, is the most important lesson of all.

It's one thing to want, another to be able, and a third to make it happen.

We all have dreams. Some are big, audacious goals that would change the world, while others are smaller, more personal desires. Maybe you want to write a novel, start a business, learn a new language, or finally get in shape. The initial spark of desire is often the easiest part. We can conjure up images of success and bask in the glow of possibility. We want it, and that's a wonderful first step! But wanting something is only the very beginning. It's like planting a seed—you've got the potential for growth, but a whole lot more work needs to be done. At this stage, we begin to distinguish between the state of wanting and the state of being able. Being able involves more than just possessing innate talent or having access to resources. It's about possessing the specific skills, knowledge, and tools necessary to even begin pursuing your goal. Think of that aspiring novelist. They might dream of writing a bestseller, but do they actually know the basics of plot structure, character development, and engaging dialogue? Do they have time to dedicate to writing and editing? Similarly, someone who dreams of starting a business might have a brilliant idea, but do they understand the intricacies of marketing, finance, and legal compliance? Do they have access to the necessary capital? The realization that we're not quite "able" to achieve our desires just yet can be disheartening. It can feel like a giant obstacle, leading to procrastination, discouragement, and ultimately, giving up. But this is precisely where the magic of learning and growth comes in. Recognizing your limitations is not a sign of weakness; it's an opportunity to identify the skills you need to cultivate and the resources you need to acquire. Bridging the gap is the focus of this stage. Take online courses, read books, seek mentorship, practice, and experiment. Break down your big goal into smaller, more manageable steps. Focus on acquiring the necessary skills and building a solid foundation. Achieving your goals is often a journey of continuous learning and self-improvement. So, you've put in the work. You've dedicated yourself to learning and developing the skills needed to pursue your dream. You're now "able." Congratulations! But even with all the talent in the world, nothing happens without action. Putting it into action is the crucial step. This area is the realm of discipline, perseverance, and consistent effort. It's about overcoming the internal resistance that whispers doubts and temptations. It's about pushing through the inevitable challenges and setbacks that will arise. Please consider that novelist once more. They now understand how to craft a compelling story and have set aside dedicated time slots for writing, but are they consistently sitting down to write? Are they willing to face rejection from publishers and keep revising their manuscript? "Making it happen" is about committing to the process, even when motivation wanes. It's about creating a routine, setting realistic deadlines, and holding yourself accountable. It's about celebrating small victories along the way and learning from your mistakes. Ultimately, these three elements—wanting, being able, and making it happen—are interconnected and interdependent. You can't truly succeed without all three. Wanting provides the initial fuel, being able provides the necessary tools, and making it happen provides the sustained momentum to reach your destination. So, the next time you find yourself dreaming of something you want, take a moment to reflect on where you stand in this process. Are you merely appreciating the concept, or are you actively taking steps to become "capable"? And most importantly, are you putting in the consistent effort to "make it happen"? Keep in mind, the journey from desire to achievement is a journey, not a sprint. It requires patience, resilience, and an unwavering belief in your ability to learn, grow, and eventually turn your dreams into reality. Go out there and make it happen! I hope what you want will benefit you and those around you.

Anger is the beginning of all problems

At first glance, it may seem like an oversimplification. Are all problems really born of anger? Natural disasters, economic downturns, and disease appear to be distant from intense anger. However, the power of the quote lies in its focus on the beginning. Anger, often a primal and instinctive reaction, can serve as a catalyst, initiating a series of events that result in a multitude of issues. Consider. How often have you reacted with anger, only to regret your words or actions later? Maybe you've gotten frustrated at a loved one, made a rash decision at work, or escalated a minor disagreement into a full-scale argument. In each of these scenarios, anger served as the initial spark, igniting a fire that could have been prevented. Imagine a kingdom ruled by impulsive rulers prone to tantrums. Wars could be started over petty slights, justice could be dispensed unfairly, and the overall atmosphere would be filled with fear and instability. Therefore, the quote likely serves as a guiding principle for the kingdom's leaders, emphasizing the importance of diplomacy, patience, and thoughtful decision-making. The wisdom of this saying also affects the individual's internal landscape.  Anger, if unchecked, can destroy and poison our relationships, our work, and even our health. It clouds our judgment, making it difficult to see situations clearly and objectively. It can lead to resentment, bitterness, and a general sense of anxiety. Essentially, it deprives us of our mental tranquility. But the quote does not advocate suppressing emotions. Anger is a natural human emotion, and suppressing it completely can be just as damaging as acting on it impulsively. Instead, the emphasis is on recognizing and understanding anger and then on choosing how to respond. It's about pausing, taking a breath, and considering the consequences before reacting.  Recognizing your triggers, understanding the root causes of your anger, and practicing healthy coping mechanisms are all important steps in preventing anger from spiraling out of control. Pay attention to your physical and emotional state. When you feel anger rising, acknowledge it without judgment. What situations, people, or thoughts tend to provoke your anger? Recognizing these triggers allows you to prepare for them. Find activities that help you calm down and release tension, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time in nature. Express your needs and feelings in a clear and respectful way without resorting to aggression. If you have difficulty controlling your anger, consider seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor.  After all, the quote "Anger is the beginning of all problems" from the book "Manners of the Great Kingdom" is a reminder of the power of emotional regulation. It encourages us to take responsibility for our emotions and choose our reactions wisely. By practicing self-awareness and developing healthy coping mechanisms, we can minimize the destructive potential of anger and cultivate a more peaceful and fulfilling life, both for ourselves and others. 

Why Desire Isn't Always Need

 We've all been there. Imagine yourself in front of a brand-new device, salivating over a rich dessert, or browsing through images of far-off places on vacation. That feeling? That intense pull? That's desire, folks. And it's powerful. However, it's often mistaken, even weaponized, as a need. Understanding the difference between the two is crucial for a happier, healthier, and, frankly, less cluttered life. The famous quote, "Desire is often confused with need," profoundly impacts our consumerist culture and prompts us to reflect. It's a simple sentence, but it unpacks a complex web of psychology, marketing, and societal pressure.  Needs are the fundamental requirements for survival and well-being. Think of Maslow's hierarchy: food, water, shelter, safety, and belonging. These are the bedrock of our existence. They keep us alive, healthy, and functioning within a community. Desires, on the other hand, are wants, wishes, and yearnings that go beyond basic necessities. External factors such as advertising, social trends, and personal experiences often influence them. Could it be the limited-edition sneaker you've always wanted? Could it be a luxury car featuring heated seats? How about an Instagram-worthy  brunch? Those are desires, my friend. So, where does the confusion come from? Master marketers are experts at turning desires into perceived needs. They tap into our insecurities, our aspirations, and our fear of missing out (FOMO). Through clever campaigns, they convince us that we need their product to be happy, successful, or even just "normal." Think of the countless ads that tell us we need the latest technology to stay connected or the newest skincare to achieve flawless beauty. We often confuse desires with needs because we attach emotional significance to them. That designer handbag might represent success and status, or that weekend getaway might promise relaxation and escape. We tell ourselves we need these things to feel positive, even though they don't address any fundamental need.  Keeping up with the Joneses is a real phenomenon. We see our friends, neighbors, and influencers flaunting their latest acquisitions, and we feel compelled to do the same. Suddenly, a desire becomes a perceived need to maintain our social standing or avoid feeling left out. Occasionally, we simply haven't taken the time to reflect on our true needs and values. We're so caught up in the pursuit of external validation that we lose sight of what truly matters to us. We might be chasing desires that don't align with our core values, leading to a sense of emptiness and dissatisfaction. Okay, so we know the problem. But how do we fix it? How do we untangle the web of desires and needs? Here are a few tips:

Take a moment before making a purchase to ask yourself, "Do I really need this, or do I just want it?" Be honest with yourself. What truly matters to you? What brings you lasting joy and fulfillment? Align your spending and your desires with your values. Be aware of the tactics that marketers use to influence your buying decisions. Please consider evaluating their claims and conducting your research. Focus on what you already have and appreciate the simple things in life. Gratitude can help you shift your perspective and reduce your desire for more. Resist the urge to buy something impulsively. Give yourself time to think about it. You might find that the desire fades over time. Personally, I don’t have a smartphone yet. When I make a purchase for myself, I want it to feel good and be beneficial. I don’t follow the latest trends. I have a principle that I stick to—that I want to feel good, not that people think I’m in a good mood. I haven’t yet secured volunteers to cover my lunch or dinner expenses. We need to be mindful of our motivations and prioritize our true needs over fleeting desires. By cultivating self-awareness, resisting marketing manipulation, and focusing on what really matters, we can break free from the cycle of desire and create a more fulfilling and meaningful life. So, the next time you feel that strong pull of desire, take a deep breath, stop, and ask yourself, “Is this a want or a need? And more importantly, will it really make me happy?” The answer may surprise you. 

No One Is Useless: Sometimes, it just takes the right moment to reveal that truth.

In a world that often measures worth by visible achievements or status, it’s simple to overlook the quiet power of resilience and presence. Society tends to celebrate leaders, innovators, and those at the forefront of change—but what about the moments when life takes an unexpected turn and chaos erupts? True value emerges in these moments when everyone else is fleeing. Many people, at some point, have felt inadequate or irrelevant. Whether it’s struggling to find purpose, being underestimated, or standing in the shadows of those deemed more successful, the weight of feeling useless can be immense. But this perception is misleading. Every person carries unique potential, shaped by experiences, instincts, and personal strengths that emerge in the most unexpected situations. Some of the most extraordinary acts of courage come from those who refuse to turn away in times of crisis. Imagine a natural disaster where trained emergency teams are overwhelmed. Volunteers step in—people without formal rescue training but with a strong will to help. They offer shelter, deliver food, and provide emotional support. In that moment, their presence is invaluable. Consider a scenario where a workplace is failing, morale is low, and panic begins to set in. The person who may not have held the highest rank suddenly becomes the glue holding the team together. Their ability to listen, motivate, and bring calm amidst uncertainty turns them into an irreplaceable force. It is not titles that define worth, but actions. There is strength in simply being there when others flee. Whether it’s standing up for someone who is being mistreated, taking a risk to speak up when silence feels safer, or choosing to help when no one else will—these moments prove that no one is ever truly useless. Some shine in the spotlight, others in the shadows, but all contribute to the larger tapestry of life. True worth is not measured by how many people recognize it but by the impact one makes in the crucial moments. Every individual possesses the capacity to provide a sense of calm during challenging times, provide support during difficult times, and provide a voice amidst silence. The value of a person isn’t always seen immediately, but when the world shifts and challenges rise, those who stay—those who step forward when everyone else steps back—show just how essential they are.  So, the next time you feel like you don’t quite fit in or that your skills aren’t particularly valuable, remember this: your value is not determined by what you can do under ideal circumstances. Your value often determines what you can accomplish when others retreat.  So embrace your unique strengths, even if they seem insignificant. Nurture your unconventional skills, even if they seem out of sync with the mainstream. You never know when those seemingly "useless" qualities could be the key to success.  No one is useless. Occasionally, the timing is perfect for revealing this truth.