There are different types of success, too.

 Success is a tricky thing to measure. Some people might say that success is achieving your goals, while others might say that success is simply being fulfilled and content with your life. There are a lot of different factors that contribute to success, and everyone has their own definition of what it looks like. Some people might measure success by how much money they make, while others might measure success by how many people they help. Success can be measured in many ways, and what matters to you is your choice. There are different types of success, too. Some people might find success in their careers, while others might find success in their personal lives. There’s no wrong way to find success, and whatever makes you happy is what matters. No matter how you measure success or what kind of success you’re looking for, remember that you can achieve anything you set your mind to. Just keep working hard ; never give up on your dreams.

Author Sezgin Ismailov

You can now listen to my first book

 I am pleased to present to you that my book Manners in the Great Kingdom in English and German versions has been released as an audiobook. Anyone can already listen to it if they don't feel like reading it. The titles of the stories alone are enough to make one wonder whether they are worth listening to. Lack of knowledge and laziness are the greatest enemies.  2. A person always has a choice.  3. Strive to work on what brings you pleasure. 4. If there is hope, there will always be a future. 5. There is nothing more valuable than health. 6. If you are confident and stubborn, you will achieve your goals.  7. The Lord provides, but we must make an effort to take it. 8. The most difficult words to say are "thank you" and sorry.  9. It's difficult to win a real friend, but it's simple to lose a friend.  10. What we say or do is the result of our thoughts.  11. To forgive means to clear yourself of the burden of your soul.  12. Joy is an inspiration for optimism and energy.  13. When you are helping other people, you are also helping yourself. 14. If you want to stop drinking, look at the nondrinker.  15. It is difficult to remain silent; it is important to listen and understand. 16. Envy is a waste of time and future. 17. Greed has no measure.  18. What you sow, that is what you reap. 19. You can only share what you have. 20. Inactivity doesn't improve things.  21. Ignorance is a barrier to achieving happiness and success. 22. Affection is a spark; love is an eternal flame. 23. If you want health, you need willpower and habits.  24. The lie is stronger currently, but the truth becomes stronger in the future. 25. Whatever you give, you'll get it. 26. If you want happiness, you must be sincere and grateful. 27. Our destiny is what we had planned and decided. 

Losing can help us to learn from our mistakes

Losing is an essential part of life. It is impossible to win all the time, and losing is a necessary part of the learning process. Loss can teach us valuable lessons and help us become better people.  There are many benefits to losing. Losing can help us to learn from our mistakes, to become more humble, and to develop a greater sense of empathy for others. Losing can also motivate us to work harder and to become more determined to achieve our goals.  In order to use losing to our advantage, we need to accept it as part of life and learn from it. We should not be afraid to fail, and we should view each setback as an opportunity to grow and improve.  There is an old saying

When you lose something, you don't know what you can gain.

 Author Sezgin Ismailov

If there is a question, there must be an answer. If there is an obstacle, there must be a way to overcome it

Life's just like this messy thing, always throwing challenges and weird stuff at you. Everyone, at some point, deals with problems that make you doubt everything, leaving you scratching your head about how to fix the mess. But here's the kicker: if there's a question, there's always an answer. If something's in your way, you can get around it, over it, or through it. That's just how it goes, you know? Problems usually have a way of getting solved. You know that old saying, "A kind word opens a locked door"? It's not just about being nice. It's more like being chill and clever works better than just smashing stuff. Hard problems—like arguments, or when your brain just stops, or even big work stuff—usually give way to a gentler, more understanding way of doing things, not full-on fighting. Stuff just sorts itself out easier when you're open to working with people, instead of trying to force your way. The world's got these two sides, like a magnet—positive, negative, all that. You need both for it to work. Same with problems; seeing both the good and bad, all the different angles, usually helps you figure things out better. Let's discuss the concept of the "law of attraction." I don't have scientific proof, obviously, but everyone kind of sees it work out. It's like, if you really focus and believe something, it can totally become a self-fulfilling prophecy, messing with how you see things and what opportunities pop up.

 Old folks always say, "Be careful what you wish for," and they're probably right. Not only do things have the potential to go awry, but it's crucial to have a profound understanding of your true desires. What you're after, even if you don't know it, kind of just finds you. But it's not like you just sit there. Nah, I totally think if you've done your homework—learned stuff, gotten skills, toughened up your brain—you'll figure out new ways to get through even the toughest crap. And yeah, don't just give up at the first big snag. What are those initial obstacles? They're usually just tests, or chances to learn, or maybe the universe nudging you to rethink your game plan. When faced with significant challenges that induce stress and hinder clear thinking, it is often most beneficial to take a moment to relax. Take five; let your mind clear. Then, with a refreshed perspective, thoroughly examine the problem from all angles to identify the most effective and efficient solution. Take five; let your head clear. Then, with a fresh brain, really dig into the problem and check out every angle to find the easiest, smartest fix. So, if you want to keep winning, it's not just about grinding. It involves a unique blend of hard work and strategic thinking. It doesn't matter if you're doing tough physical work, killing it in sports, or just overthinking stuff in your head—like solving problems or coming up with new ideas. Strategy on its own is just talk, and hard work without a plan is useless. The real trick is putting them together. That's how you get through life's crap: strong and kind of wise.

Author Sezgin Ismailov

It's not enough to just acknowledge your mistakes - you need to use them as opportunities to improve your life.

This article explains how to turn your mistakes into opportunities. We all make mistakes. It's part of being human. But what separates the successful from the unsuccessful is how they deal with their mistakes. The successful learn from their mistakes and use them as opportunities to improve their lives. They don't dwell on their mistakes or wallow in self-pity. Instead, they view their mistakes as learning experiences and use them to become better people. 2. Why should you turn your mistakes into opportunities? If you want to be successful in life, you need to learn from your mistakes. It's not enough to just acknowledge your mistakes ; you need to use them as opportunities to improve your life. By doing so, you'll become a better person and be better equipped to handle whatever life throws your way. 3. How to use your mistakes as opportunities to improve your life: First, it's important to accept that you made a mistake. The process can be difficult, but it's necessary to learn from your mistakes. After accepting your mistake, think about what went wrong and what you could have done differently. Then, make a plan to avoid making the same mistake in the future. Finally, please proceed to implement your plan. By taking these steps, you'll be able to use your mistake as an opportunity to improve your life.  I have never heard of such a sinless person. That is why we call the higher power God, Mother Nature, Energy

Author Sezgin Ismailov

Doubt can prevent us from taking action.

When faced with a problem or challenge, it's natural to want to find a solution. We may turn to friends, family, or experts for advice. But occasionally the best advice comes from within. Doubt can be a powerful force. It can make us question our abilities and decisions. It can make us second-guess ourselves and our choices. Doubt is a natural part of the human experience. We all feel it occasionally. But when doubt starts to take over, it can get dangerous. Doubt can prevent us from taking action. It can prevent us from moving forward. It can prevent us from achieving our goals. Doubt can mislead us. It may give us false information. It can lead us down the wrong path. If we let doubt take control, it can ruin our lives. Here are some strategies for overcoming doubt. Doubt is a normal part of the human experience. But when doubt starts to take over, it can become overwhelming. If you struggle with doubt, there are things you can do to overcome it. Talk to someone you trust. Get some perspective. Challenge your doubts. Ask yourself if they are really true. Focus on your strengths. Remember what you are excelling at. Take initiative. Do something, even if it's just a small step. I'm moving on. Doubt will always be there, but don't let it stop you from living your life. Even though I have my doubts, I always employ a technique that involves emotional stress. It helps me.

Author Sezgin Ismailov

The Twin Enemies Within: Ignorance and Laziness

The quote “Ignorance and laziness are man’s greatest enemies” from the book “Manners in the Great Kingdom” offers profound insight into the fundamental obstacles that hinder human potential. It’s a statement that resonates across cultures and times, speaking to the eternal struggle between aspiration and the forces that hold us back.  Exposing Ignorance:  The term “ignorance” does not necessarily mean a lack of intelligence. Instead, it refers to a lack of knowledge, understanding, or awareness. This ignorance can manifest itself in various forms:  Ignorance of the World: A lack of knowledge about history, science, current events, and different cultures can limit our ability to understand the complexities of the world and make informed decisions. Self-Ignorance: Perhaps even more insidious is a lack of self-awareness—a failure to understand our strengths, weaknesses, biases, and motivations. This type of ignorance can lead to poor choices and unrealized potential.

Ignorance of Opportunities: Not knowing the opportunities that exist for growth, learning, and advancement can keep us stuck in undesirable situations.

Ignorance in this context is not a static state but a preventable one. It is a choice not to seek knowledge, a refusal to engage critically with the world and learn from experience. This refusal, fueled by fear or complacency, ultimately limits our ability to navigate life effectively and achieve our goals.

The Paralysis of Laziness: Laziness, the second enemy, is a deeply rooted unwillingness to exert effort. It is a passive resistance to action, a preference for comfort and ease over the pursuit of goals. Like ignorance, laziness takes many forms:  Physical laziness: The unwillingness to engage in physical activity, leading to diminished health and vitality. Mental laziness: The avoidance of intellectual challenges, preventing personal growth and critical thinking.  Spiritual laziness: The lack of motivation to cultivate inner peace, explore one’s purpose, and connect with something greater than oneself.

Laziness is often fueled by fear of failure, lack of motivation, or a sense of lack of reward. It can create a cycle of inaction, leading to feelings of guilt and frustration, which further reinforces the desire to avoid effort. It is essentially a self-perpetuating prison that confines individuals to a state of stagnation.  The devastating synergy:  The true power of this quote lies not only in identifying ignorance and laziness as individual enemies but also in recognizing their synergistic effect. Ignorance can breed laziness by masking potential opportunities or minimizing the perceived importance of self-improvement. Conversely, laziness can perpetuate ignorance by preventing people from seeking new knowledge and experiences.  Think of it this way: ignorance prevents us from seeing the path ahead, and laziness prevents us from taking the first step, even if that path is lit up before us. Together, they create a powerful force that can thwart even the most ambitious dreams.  The quote from “Manners in the Great Kingdom” is not just an observation but a call to action. It urges us to actively combat these twin enemies by continuous learning: read, ask questions, and engage with the world around you. Cultivating Discipline: Develop the discipline to overcome inertia and take action, even when it’s uncomfortable or challenging. Set goals, break them down into manageable steps, and celebrate small victories.

Self-Reflection: Regularly examine your beliefs, biases, and motivations. Strive for self-awareness and identify areas where you can improve.

Ultimately, the battle against ignorance and laziness is a lifelong journey of self-improvement. By actively confronting these inner enemies, we can unlock our full potential, contribute meaningfully to the world, and live lives of purpose and fulfillment. The “Great Kingdom” mentioned in the book’s title is likely a metaphor for the human potential that lies dormant within each of us, waiting to be awakened through knowledge and action. This is the solution to the problem of ignorance and laziness.      The easiest way to get rid of it is to start reading books and invent a hobby