My personal opinion

This week I had the idea to jot down a few lines about the quote from The Wealth of the Great Kingdom—"The only problem with a person who always finds fault with another is because of their weakness"—it's really different, isn't it? It’s one of those lines that makes you think, “Yeah, that explains a lot.” The quote's simplicity belies its profound depth. When we talk about someone who “always finds fault with another,” we’re not just talking about a one-time complaint or a valid complaint. We’re talking about someone who seems to have a built-in flaw radar, constantly pointing out what’s wrong with everyone else—their choices, their appearance, their work, and their life in general. It’s a pattern, almost a compulsion. The quote states that the only issue with this behavior is their "own weakness." Aww. However, it's also quite cleverly said. It’s not about the person they’re criticizing; it’s about the critic themselves. These “weaknesses” do not n...

 Have you ever paused to consider, "Am I truly making progress here?" It's a common thought, particularly when life seems like a never-ending cycle. We're often told progress equals a bigger title, a fatter salary, or a fancier car. And sure, those can be signs. However, what constitutes genuine, deep-rooted progress? That often looks a little different, and honestly, a lot more personal. How can you determine if you have advanced? For a moment, let's set aside the conventional scorecard and examine some authentic signs that you're not merely drifting aimlessly but genuinely creating a life you cherish.  Your financial situation feels less stressful. Okay, let's be real, money isn't everything. But having enough money and using it wisely is a giant freedom. Think back a few years. Were you constantly sweating over bills? Were you constantly balancing your rent and groceries? A sign of progress: You're not just getting by; you're building a buff...

We’ve all heard the adage, “Lend a hand.” It’s etched into our collective consciousness as the epitome of human kindness, a fundamental pillar of community and compassion. See someone struggling? Reach out! Offer support! Be the hero they need! It sounds wonderful, right? Like something straight out of a feel-good movie. But here’s a rather uncomfortable truth, one that flies in the face of all those warm fuzzy feelings: people sometimes prefer not to receive open help. And believe it or not, in today’s hyper-individualistic, often privacy-obsessed world, this sentiment is becoming even more pronounced. It’s a strange paradox: we yearn for connection but often recoil from direct intervention when we’re at our most vulnerable. Think about it. There’s a quiet dignity in solving your problems, isn’t there? You experience a feeling of victory when you successfully navigate a challenging situation without requiring assistance. When someone swoops in with an outstretched hand, no matter ...

 We’ve probably all fantasized about such a scenario at some point. The world is turning upside down, and while everyone else is running around like headless chickens, you’re as cool as a cucumber, descending into your secret, fully charged, reinforced bunker. The lights come on, the air purifiers hum, and you settle in with your freeze-dried lasagna, ready to weather the end of the world in relative comfort. Sounds pretty sweet, right? Now, let's take a moment to confront the harsh realities of the situation. Is the idea of a bunker appealing to you? It’s probably the most complicated, energy-consuming, and ultimately depressing dead end in the entire survival guide. The truth is that when a global disaster occurs, there is truly no escape—at least not in a meaningful way. And a bunker, far from being your salvation, can just be a costly, very lonely tomb. Why I Think So. The critical question is: how can one gain access to a bunker and remain safe inside it? First, let’s talk abo...

Have you ever struggled to explain a challenging experience to someone who has never experienced anything remotely similar? Perhaps you were deeply worried about finances, and a friend with a trust fund kindly suggested, "Why don't you just save more?" Or perhaps you were battling a chronic illness, and someone perpetually healthy suggested you "just try thinking positively." In those moments, you probably felt a pang of frustration, thinking, "They just don't get it." "A full man does not believe a hungry man." It's a simple sentence, but its wisdom runs deep, touching on empathy, perspective, and the sometimes-invisible walls that separate our understanding of the world. First, let’s clarify that this proverb is not solely about someone who has eaten a large lunch and doubts the existence of someone who is literally starving.   This quote isn't just about someone with a full belly. It represents someone who enjoys a state of com...

The adage, "Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely," is widely known. But what happens when a person suddenly gains a significant advantage, such as wealth, knowledge, or influence? Can a rapid change in circumstances, even a seemingly positive one, drive a person insane? That’s the question behind the old saying, “God forbid that the blind man should see!” It’s a succinct statement that hints at the potential dangers of instant enlightenment or wealth, suggesting that unpreparedness for such a radical change can lead to disastrous consequences. Think of it as the lottery winner who ends up broke and miserable or the celebrity caught up in the relentless glare of overnight fame. These are extreme examples, but the underlying principle holds true: a sudden and undeserved advantage can distort perception, undermine empathy, and ultimately lead to a person’s downfall. Let us examine this idea through a story about a man named Silas, who embodies the very warning ...

Every nation preserves its wisdom, passed down from generation to generation. Deep truths about human nature often lie behind seemingly simple plots, remaining relevant regardless of the era. One such story is about gratitude, about bad wounds that heal, and about negative words that remain unforgettable. Can the lesson about the power of words find its place among startups, social networks, and global connectivity? Let's try to tell it again. In one of the most competitive industries—that of high technology—the young and ambitious Leo was struggling to save his startup, "Nexus AI," from certain bankruptcy. His project, an innovative artificial intelligence platform, was mired in patent litigation and facing a financial crisis that threatened to swallow it up. Just when his hopes were running out, Victor appeared on the scene—a legend in the tech world, known for his uncompromising nature and survival instinct. Victor was not just an investor but a titan whose company, Gl...