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A slightly more sideways look at our lives today

 If a person could peel off their skin for a second and look at themselves from the side—as if they were watching a movie about themselves—they would quickly see that the situation is not tragic at all. Quite the opposite. 
In our hectic everyday life, we often focus on what we miss or on the stressful situations we face every day. But if we set aside our petty worries, we will quickly see how fortunate we are—despite all the problems and adversities.
The basic things we take for granted
Think about the following facts that put our lives in an entirely different perspective:
If you have food in the fridge, clothes on your back, a roof over your head, and a safe place to sleep, you are already richer than 75% of the planet’s population.
If you have some savings in the bank or money in your wallet, without the terrible shadow of quick loans and debt collectors hanging over you, you are often in the top 8% of the most financially stable people in the world.
The most valuable resource—health: If you woke up this morning healthy and without pain, you are  blessed  You win your fortune purely by the lottery. As a wise thought says:
"A healthy person has a thousand dreams, and a sick person has only one."
Real change begins with perspective.
We often confuse wealth with the accumulation of luxury items or bank accounts with many digits. True well-being, however, lies in the ability to live peacefully, have security, and enjoy optimal health.
The next time you feel exhausted or frustrated by the small obstacles in your path, stop for a moment. Look at your life from the outside, assess what you have today, and remind yourself that true happiness is not about having everything but about realizing the value of what you already have.
Author: Sezgin Ismailov
         
“Absolute freedom does not exist: there is only freedom of choice. And once we have made a choice, we become hostages to our decision.”
—Paulo Coelho)

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